“Addiction,” freedom, and diversity
In our society, psychologists, psychiatrists, and other self-proclaimed experts have been labeling an increasing number of things as “addictions.” For example, people who spend a lot of time online are often diagnosed with “Internet addiction,” and people who eat a lot of sweets are accused of having a “food addiction.” And whenever a famous person ends up in a sex scandal, self-proclaimed experts will inevitably pontificate about how this person “suffers” from “sex addiction.”
This is what happened to John Edwards, Tiger Woods, Anthony Weiner, Dominique Strauss-Kahn, and more recently, former Massachusetts gubernatorial candidate Christy Mihos. Mihos’s wife accused him of domestic violence and of being “addicted to hiring prostitutes, strippers, and porn stars for sex.” In the aftermath he issued a statement saying, “Andrea and I have been married for almost 38 years and I cherish the perfect wife she has always been…I am now seeking the proper course of treatment to make myself a better husband, father and person.” In addition to being a terribly sad end to the career of a quirky, independent-minded candidate, it is sad that Mihos has succumbed to the majority view that his sex life makes him “sick” and in need of “treatment.”
As David Ley points out in an excellent piece in the New York Post, to label someone’s actions as an addiction denies their individual responsibility and unjustly absolves them of blame if they have done something wrong. Even more harmfully, it classifies actions as bad when there is nothing wrong with them at all.
It might be true that food, sex, and surfing the net increase dopamine activity in the brain, which drugs like cocaine, meth, and heroin also do. But this is true of all pleasurable things. What makes drugs addictive is that they act by physically affecting the body, and there are physical consequences to using them or ceasing to use them. According to the logic of the mental health police, people should avoid doing anything that they find pleasurable; in other words that we should deliberately be unhappy and have a bad quality of life. This is not only wrong, but defeats the purpose of life.
Why do some people feel that they have a right to describe others’ preferences and actions as an “illness”? Why do they feel the need to attribute other people’s actions to some brain defect or trauma? It’s bad enough to condemn and look down on the way another person lives their life, but it’s even worse to treat them as if they are sick and need treatment. Instead of looking at others as equals, with whom they might disagree, people who think this way deny the personhood and rationality of others. This is the ultimate in arrogance and disrespect.
This attitude is embodied by Dr. Drew Pinsky of reality TV fame, who actually said in an interview, “It’s foolish that we don’t help people more. There’re a million pathologies that are excused under, ‘hey, whatever you’re into.’” In other words, he thinks that our society has too much freedom, and not enough telling people who differ from the norm that their preferences and lifestyles are unhealthy and defective. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Far too many people today, especially in the fields of psychology and psychiatry, believe that everyone should conform to an arbitrary standard and that any preference, desire, life decision, or character trait that differs from the average is an “illness” that requires “treatment.” This belief is the greatest assault on individual liberty in the world. Our society pays a lot of lip service to diversity, especially in the areas of race, religion, and sexual orientation. But in order to truly support diversity, society must accept all ways of living, as long as they do not involve trampling on the rights of others.
Some people have sex a lot, some people don’t have sex at all, and most people are somewhere in between. The same goes for eating, gambling, web browsing, video games, and any activity a person might choose to do. People have all different preferences and choose to spend their time in different ways. That is not something to be “treated,” but something to be celebrated.












